“Findom” twitter is a side of the app that is growing more and more everyday. With financial domination becoming more and more mainstream as time goes on, girls all over the world are snapping a few sexy selfies, creating a twitter profile and listing a pay link in their bios.
Did you notice I put findom in quotes? There’s a reason.
Because this twitter craze that is happening is the furthest thing from financial domination that I have ever seen.
Ladies- this blog post is for you. Because after this whole #ABWolfpack thing. I have a lot to say. Because a lot of you seem to think that findom is just making money sitting on your ass behind a keyboard or your phone. And its not. But if you keep reading I’ll give you a shot to earn some money.
I’m not going to go into huge detail about it. You can look up the hashtag on your own. But from what I understand the hashtag started when a group of girls claiming to be findommes organized what is best described as an online sorority. They then found brand new girls who they would “mentor” and made them go through a “hazing” process. They would belittle them, have them send personal info (real name, bank statements) and make audition video clips, film themselves doing submissive things etc. Then once they were “accepted” the “leaders” would help promote and make them money….and then take half their earnings. So they were a sonority/internet pimp. It fell apart pretty quickly (shocker) but they did some work on more than a couple girls.
Now, that’s an awful thing to do to somebody and its unfortunate that it happened. And I know I’m probably going to piss some people off when I say this, but…
Its really hard for me to feel sympathy for people who fall victim to things like this. Like…really hard. I’m not saying I don’t feel it, but I have to dig real deep.
If you want me to believe for one second that a true dominant woman could so easily be controlled by someone to the point of sending personal info and taking submissive orders, you are absolutely insane.
But lets put the dominant thing aside for a minute.
Common goddamn sense tells most people to NEVER send anyone personal information online. Period. Full name. Bank statements. Information about your personal life. To a stranger? Online. I truly don’t understand. These are things that can absoulutely fuck you if they fall into the hands of the wrong person. But the false promise of fast money is apparently enough to make some people not care about anything.
That brings me to my next point.
There’s a lot of things you need to have in order to become successful at any sort of online domination. But one of the most important things is common sense. Which really seems to be becoming a thing of the past. We were all new at one point. Every single one of us. We all made mistakes. But once again…common sense is going to help you make far less of those, and on a smaller scale. Use your brain!
Common sense is going to tell me that there are hundreds of thousands if not millions of girls trying to make it in the online sex world. Facts will tell me that a small percentage of those girls are actually able to living solely off of online sex work. Common sense will also tell me that if I want to be successful in an over saturated market….I might need to do more than tweet a few pics and trust a stranger without doing any research on them.
Newsflash: Twitter Dommes are not a thing. They aren’t. If you sit behind a screen and just tweet, you are not a Dominatrix. Period. Sorry.
You are a girl pretending to be dominant because you think it will make you lots of money fast. And if you really think dominance is something you can you can easily just switch on for pay, you will never make it professionally. Can some women switch and get into a dominant mood once in awhile for fun? Sure. But they don’t try to make it a profession.
Truth is, those of us that are successful, live this lifestyle. Those of us that have the ability to make 2k, 5k, 8k, 10k some days, aren’t role playing. We don’t get massive tributes and gain loyal submissive’s because we just post selfies. We work. We understand this life. Guys who are going to spend that amount money, are serious about their fetish and aren’t going to give it to someone who has no idea what they are doing.
There’s a reason I have been able to live well solely off of femdom/findom sex work for the last 5 years. I have always been interested in kink. It was a part of my life personally before I ever went professional. I studied fetish and learned as much as I could. I understand most fetishes, not just the ones I am into. I am good with people…and I never expected the money to just come easy. Its. Fucking. Work. But I live this lifestyle 24/7 and I’m not putting on a show for the camera.
And I’m not saying all this because I’m trying to brag or because I think I’m above girls trying to get into this industry. But so many girls just don’t get it. If you want to be successful at learning a new language, you study it don’t you? Why would you not do the same for a career? This is not an industry for the lazy.
That being said, I mentioned I would give you a chance to try and make some money. Here it goes.
I will personally send $100 to any girl that can point me into the direction of full time Domme (one that makes a complete/comfortable living off of this solely) who doesn’t have/offer at least two of these things:
A website
A clip store
A blog
A membership site (OnlyFans, etc)
Audio recordings
Phone sex
Paid messaging
Real time sessions
…..I’ll wait