Facing The Facts
I’ve noticed that some of you boys that call yourselves submissives really aren’t such. Maybe you just get off on the title without knowing what it really means to be such. You could have the stereotypical BDSM image in your head of a slave boy being tied to a cross and whipped by a statuesque latex catsuit clad woman. You love the fantasy. But what about the reality? What do you think the lifestyle of a Dominatrix is truly like?
The reality of dominance is that it doesn’t stop once my cam is off or the phone is hung up. Once my corset has been undone and my winged eyeliner is removed, it doesn’t cease to exist. I live this 24/7.
Its always so strange to me when clients (over the phone, real time, etc) ask me “so are you like actually into all this?” or the ever insulting “what’s your real job outside of this?”
Whats even stranger is that after I make it known that yes I am in fact into all this and this IS my real job some of them seem a little….disappointed? Kind of like an ‘oh I figured this was all just for fun’ kind of vibe. I happen to find BDSM and dominance way more fun than a lot of things. But it’s my lifestyle and I happened to find a way to monetize it.
Of course there are some women who really do play a fantasy role in this industry. Some women don’t live this lifestyle outside of business hours and that may work for them. But every single woman I know personally who also does this professionally, 100% lives this lifestyle 24/7.
The Harsh Reality Of The Dominatrix Lifestyle
Why is that so hard for some males to wrap there heads around? Because they are into the fantasy, not the reality of a D/S dynamic. They want to role play and in their minds, they think they are dominant outside of that 15 minute Niteflirt call or 60 min session. They are bothered that women like me see them as beings that are meant to serve, 24/7, 365 days a year.
Now I don’t run into this that often anymore. Anyone who has done research can clearly see that I do not feel that males my equals. Males who randomly stumble upon my listing and/or are new to this aren’t aware. But oh how quickly they find out. I’ve even had some get angry and try to debate me about it while on cam or on a call. I allow them to state their hatred and disdain all they want. It is they who are paying me by the minute.
So go ahead…tell me how dominant you actually are and how you’re not. really ‘into all this.’ I’ll be one the other end watching my account increase.
