Ebony Women are Natural Goddesses
For as long as I can remember, white males have been absolutely infatuated with me. At first I didn’t get it, but as time went on I started to understand it….. and fully embrace it. Ebony women are natural Goddesses. Black Women are just so damn sexy and infatuating. Our hair, our glowing skin, our amazing curves. What’s not to love? Not to mention that we come in every beautiful shade under the sun! From caramel to deep mocha, our melanin knows no bounds. Oh,and don’t get me started on our asses!
You wanting, no…NEEDING to serve a Black Goddess comes as no surprise. I’m going to give you some tips on exactly how to go about that and stand out from all the other white boys vying for our attention.
The 5 Tips For Serving An Ebony Domme
1.Do Your Research
If you find a Superior that you are interested in serving DO SOME RESEARCH. Do not message her without doing this first. I can’t stress that enough. The #1 pet peeve of most Goddesses is receiving messages/questions that are easily answered (and usually very clearly stated) in our profiles. With this in mind, If she has a whole NiteFlirt profile or an IWC sites full of clips and you ask “So Goddess what are you into?” its going to irritate her. We put thought into our online presence for a reason. RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH.
2. Make A Good First Impression
Once you’ve done your research its time to make contact. However, this can be a little nerve racking at first. If you do do this right you will be rewarded with proper attention. TRIBUTES MATTER. If you knew how many messages we got a day you would understand this. Every other sub wants to be our “white sissy bitch” or “serve a Black Queen” How are you going to stand out? I’m not saying send your whole paycheck (although that would be great) but a small gesture can go a long way. See your favorite Goddess tweeting about starbucks? Buy her a coffee in the form of a giftcard to her email. See a tribute link to her favorite clip platform? Use that! A small token of your appreciation could be the start of a beautiful ongoing relationship!
3. Support Her Work.
Does she make clips? A lot of us do. Purchase some! That can be a great ice breaker as well. Purchase a few and write to her and tell her how much you enjoyed them. Does she have a phone line? Give her a call. As a result, the awkwardness of writing a message or stressing about what giftcard to send is eliminated. You can speak to her while showing that you value her time and arent looking for freebies.
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4. Know What You’re Looking For
Be upfront about what you’re looking for. The worst thing, aside from having a sub that did zero research on us, is a sub that doesn’t know what he wants. Yes, it is ultimately all about us, but we just because you’re a sub and we’re Dommes, doesn’t mean we are a match. There are thousands upon thousands of fetishes out there and no one caters to them all! Saying “Goddess control me! I’m a pathetic white boy!” is the most generic uninteresting thing ever. Speak up!
5. Be Consistent
CONSISTENCY. If you truly want to become a submissive pet to a Black Goddess, you will consistently find ways to please her. You can book cam shows once in awhile and buy a few clips here and there…but that’s not the way to build a relationship. If you want a stable D/S dynamic with a Domme, then you make pleasing her a part of your lifestyle. Regularly pay for her monthly nail appointments, or adopt a bill. Schedule a skype show (paid in advance) on the same day every week. Surprise her with a random tribute or a gift card to her favorite store. Frequently check her wishlist for new items. Interact with her on social media and promote her. There are always little ways to show you care and are thinking about her!
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Obey and Prosper
These 5 tips for serving an Ebony Domme will help you contact and build a relationship with a Gorgeous Superior Black Goddess and stand out from all the other white boys that want to serve us. Follow these steps and you’re on your way to becoming the little white pet you’ve always dreamed of being!
